right or wrong?


What is right and what is wrong?

Is me taking a left turn right or wrong? What about right turn?

Well, that depends on where I am going and what I want out of that journey. If I am just wondering around and exploring the area, it doesn’t matter which turn I take. But if I am going somewhere in particular, then it matters more. But even if I take a turn that is not in the direction where I want to go, it can still be valuable, and it often is valuable because you learn that there might be a shorter way to your destination, that pretty or not so pretty scenery might be there and there’s no way to know unless you go and see for yourself. So, how can those lessons be “wrong”.

Anyways, who decides what is right and what is wrong for you?

Why? Why do people think that they can know what is right for you?

And how? How would they know what is right for you?

Do you allow other people decide what is right for you? Of course in the age of persuasion, we are all conditioned to a certain degree with this whole “right and wrong” polarity. But how do other people know what is right for me?

They don’t.

They do NOT!!!

It is for you to know.

Of course it doesn’t help that human history is one of oppression, control, fear and more control. Children from the early age are told what is right and what is wrong, what they should do, how they should be, what they should think and believe and what they should not. And, to be very clear, I think it is very very important that we guide our children. But guidance is different from control. How the heck can children grow up to be sovereign beings if every step, every thought is controlled by someone else? No wonder we have an epidemic of anxiety, low self-esteem, zero self-trust and not knowing who we are and how to listen to our own inner guidance.

Let’s be done with it.

Let’s start listening to our own inner guidance, because it is still there. It always has been there, we just have to listen.

Let’s learn to trust our own true nature that knows what is right for us.

Let’s be OK making mistakes, because they are not mistakes, they are simply learning experiences. Mistakes are adventures into the unknown.

Let’s learn to be kinder to ourselves.

Let’s learn to invite more Joy and Ease into our lives, it is not as hard as you might think.

Let’s learn to live in harmony with our own selves.

Hit reply if you are ready to stop shapeshifting to please others. It’s time to own who you are, it’s time to be proud of who you. You came here, to this planet to explore what it’s like to BE YOU.

It’s time.

Claim your spot for 1:1 coaching with me to reclaim your True Nature. Save years of your life instead of trying to figure it out by yourself.

Nataliya

Nataliya K

My emails are like mini coaching sessions and love letters to your soul. I also like to wonder about big, existential questions. Suffer less, love more.

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